Text appeal: Women describing themselves as sweet, ambitious or thoughtful are more likely to attract male attention and receive admiring messages on online dating websites (illustrated), while men who claim they are physically fit or describe themselves as perceptive, passionate or optimistic prove more irresistible to women A study of 12,000 online dating profiles posted on e uk found that women describing themselves as sweet, ambitious or thoughtful are more likely to attract male attention and receive admiring messages.Physically fit or perceptive men attract between 60 and 70 per cent more interest from women who want to get to know them better, while sweet, ambitious or funny women see between 20 to 45 per cent more approaches.The language of love: Physically fit or perceptive men attracted between 60 and 70 per cent more interest from women who wanted to get to know them better, while sweet, ambitious or funny women saw between 20 to 45 per cent more approaches, which could lead to a date (stock image) Words used on a profile were shown to have a larger impact on women’s decision to approach men at between 64 and 69 per cent, while men are slightly more biased towards a pretty face, with only 43 to 46 per cent being more swayed by words.‘While the research shows certain words serve to grab fellow daters’ attention, at e Harmony we know that daters are looking for quality dates every time.
Now it's time to write a kick-ass bio that describes how awesome you are!
Here is some helpful advice and a few valuable tips: 1) Be Different - Most Profiles Look Exactly the Same!
The #1 mistake that people make when making their profile is that they write the EXACT SAME things that everyone else does!
90% of profiles feature the same cliche phrases like: "I'm a hard-working guy who is looking for a nice girl." "I enjoy hanging out with my friends." "I'm an easy-going, fun person." DON’T DO THIS!
Although there's nothing inherently wrong with these sentences, you should avoid using them if possible, since so many other people have them on their profile.
Phrases like this don't help you stand out and can be BORING to read after having seen them so many times.
The good thing is, if you write a unique profile you'll immediately set yourself apart from others on the site and gain an advantage. We'll get into more detail about how to do this in the sections below.
2) Make a Unique Headline Oftentimes, dating sites like Po F, Ok Cupid or Match will have space for a short headline.
How do you rise above 1000s of profiles in an Online Dating Site? Cool - now I’ve got a setting for a 2 minute fantasy, and I want to know more about him!
You’ve only got a couple of seconds to make a lasting impression. Think about this, dear friends - When you scan the profiles over your rare coffee break - which ones grab your 7 1/2 spare minutes?
Now imagine you’re the guy on the other end of the mouse - you know - the hot one you were just peeking at.