Over the past few weeks I had the opportunity to sit with them and look at their matches. Regardless of whether they should or not, people are going to make judgments based on your photos. • No blurry pics, no dark images (where your face is shaded), no oversaturated shots, no flash-induced “demon eyes” or pics of you with your eyes closed (! It might be funny to you, but to someone that doesn’t know you, it can just look strange. I saw several profiles where people had six photos uploaded, and in five of them, they were wearing shades. • No extreme close-ups, or scrunchy face shots, or photos taken as you stick out your tongue. • No hunting photos, or shots of you holding any sort of weapons. Just set aside some time with an honest, trusted friend, and take some pics of yourself.
I have seen so many articles about this topic, and published many myself. Most of us have pretty decent cameras with us (smart phones), so there is no real good excuse for poor quality images anymore.
What matters more than anything when it comes to your online dating profile? Photos can drastically increase your chances of getting more communication and dates. In fact, profiles with photos are nine times more likely to get communication.Use your photos as a primary tool to express who you are, what you love to do, where you love to go and what type of lifestyle you lead.Here’s what we’ve learned about the most successful online dating photos from our research, data and matching teams: The Amount Counts We pulled stats to date from 2013, and people who uploaded 4 or more photos received the most inquiries (communication) from their matches.Interestingly, women tend to post more pics than men (at a ratio of 6.4 vs. Men also reach out and initiate communication 67% of the time.Medium Well Which of photos receive the most interest?
Landscape and 3×4 portrait sizes, according to e Harmony’s matching team.A medium shot (like the girl in the backpack) is the optimum choice and gets the most action, as you can actually get a good sense of the person’s body type (they aren’t hiding anything) as opposed to an extreme close up shot, which gets very little interest from matches. Matches who received the least amount of communication were those who included a very narrow portrait photo, where it looked as if they had clearly cut out the person next to them. Then upload blurry, poor quality or super small images.(The tacky factor here is high, along with the assumption that you have cropped out your ex! This seems like an obvious statement, but thousands of people upload pics like this. Because we present more emotion with the left side of the face.) A very wide, far away shot also rated on the poor side of the communication spectrum. To the Left A study out of Wake Forest University suggests that photos featuring the left side of the face are perceived by others as more pleasant when compared with pictures featuring the right side of the face (who knew! This is good news for those who may not have a great picture of their left side – simply make a quick edit so that it appears to be facing the other way. Another study (Tracy & Beall, 2011) looked at the gender differences in ratings of attractiveness of different emotion expressions.Open the file of your photo in Paint, then click on the “Rotate” drop down menu and choose “Flip Horizontal”. They had a group rate the attractiveness of images of the opposite sex that displayed happiness (smiling broadly), pride (head tilted up, expanded chest, and arms raised above head in fists), shame (head tilted down and narrowing chest), or a neutral look.They found men and women differed in what they found most attractive.